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Romance Scams

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In a romance scam, the scammer builds up a romantic relationship or close friendship with you, often through dating apps or social media. It can go on for weeks or months. Once you feel safe, a problem suddenly comes up that only money can solve, for example a hospital bill, a trip so you can finally meet, or an investment.

Warning signs

  • The person quickly wants to move the conversation off the app, for example to WhatsApp.

  • You've never met, and something always gets in the way when you're meant to meet or video call.

  • The person asks for money, gift cards or cryptocurrency, sometimes small amounts at first.

  • The person wants you to keep the relationship secret from family and friends.

The scammers are skilled and patient. Being fooled doesn't mean you were stupid, and it's never too late to say no.

How do you avoid this?

  • Never send money to someone you've only met online.
  • Do a reverse image search on the person's photos, for example with Google Lens, to see if someone else is using them.
  • Talk to someone you trust about the relationship before you do anything involving money.

Has this happened to you?

  • Stop sending money, however convincing the story is.
  • Contact your bank right away. Sometimes a payment can be stopped.
  • Save messages and payment details, and report it to the police at polisen.se or call 114 14.
  • Be wary of anyone offering to recover the money for a fee. It's often the same scammers again.
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  • dating
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  • social media

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